Attracting an Irish girl involves some knowledge of Irish culture and respect for the differences between Irish and American culture. There may be several people who claim to have Irish heritage, but if you are looking to attract an Irish girl who was born and raised in Ireland, you are dealing with a completely different type of girl. Irish girls appreciate certain things and dislike others; learning which to focus on and bring up during a date will give you an advantage when looking to attract an Irish girl.
Listen to her speak. This is one of the most important things you can do when it comes to attracting an Irish girl. It is especially essential when it comes to first impressions, where she is surveying you to see if she would like to go on a second date with you or just forget about you after the first. Be a good listener; this is a very attractive quality to females. While she may want to hear about you, take the first step of kindness and listen to her first.
Be humorous. Bring in some humor to catch her attention. While you do not have to go out of your way to be deliberately funny and make a fool out of yourself, you can turn on the charm and tease her a little bit to get her to warm up to you. Being humorous is flirtatious, and it will also put her at ease knowing she can laugh around you and the two of you can be relaxed together.
Ask questions. Asking her questions is a wonderful way to attract an Irish girl. Ask questions about where she is from and how it differs from your town. You may also ask her several general questions about herself that will get her talking: her favorite color, movie, singer, actor, etc. Simply showing her that you care about her interests and are willing to listen will attract her to you.
Be knowledgeable about Ireland and Irish culture. Doing your homework about where she is from will really give you a special appeal that other men may not have. Do not show yourself as ignorant; asking where Ireland is located on the map may show her that you have little to offer the relationship. If you do not care enough to be aware of something that basic she may lose interest. Go ahead and do some research about Irish history and culture and then ask her questions about what you have discovered.
Avoid certain risky topics of conversation. This includes the expected subjects: politics and religion, at least at the initial stages of attraction. The beginning of a potential relationship is for fun and flirting, not for serious discussions that may be seriously upsetting. You will be able to talk about them in time.
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