How to Date a Rich Woman

by Jennifer Eblin

About Jennifer Eblin

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Jennifer Eblin has been a full-time freelance writer since 2006. Her work has appeared on several websites, including Tool Box Tales and Zonder. Eblin received a master's degree in historic preservation from the Savannah College of Art and Design.

At times it seems like every woman in the world is looking for a man to take care of her, but at times the situation can be reversed. There are thousands of women in the world who make more money than the men they date. If you’re one of those men with a rich girlfriend or want to be one of those men, you need to be careful about the situation and learn to feel more comfortable with the way things are. Dating a rich woman is hard, but it’s far from impossible.

Go Dutch or split the bill whenever possible, no matter how much money she makes more than you every year. After awhile of constantly footing the bill, you rich woman might decide to find someone more on her level. Prove to her that you’re willing to pay your share whenever possible.

Bring her special gifts that remind you of your time together, even if they’re a little cheaper than the jewelry she might be accustomed to getting. If you have a date in the park, bring her a few flowers from the area. If you take a trip to a vineyard, take home a bottle of wine to surprise her with later.

Treat her like any other woman you dated in the past, even if she makes millions of dollars every year. Take her on the same dates you’ve taken other dates in the past and treat her the best way you can. If she’s the right woman for you, she’ll take note and remember this in the future.

Show her that she matters to you more than any amount of money could. Rich women often feel self-conscious about their wealth and worry that a man could be using them for their money. Let her know that you care about her and not her money.

Take her to places that are special to you, even if you think those places are a little too downscale for her. Make dates at the local amusement park, the county fair, your favorite bar and anywhere else that you love. This shows her that you genuinely care about her and are letting her into your life.

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Tip

  • Don’t mention her money all the time or make jokes about how much she earns. The more you bring up her wealth, the more she’ll think that’s all you’re interested in.

Warning

  • If you’re a gold digger and you only want to date the woman for her money, don’t even both. Most rich women have gone through this in the past and can spot a gold digger from a mile away.