If you are madly in love with someone and want nothing more than for that person to feel the same way about you, it can be a frustrating situation. You might spend countless sleepless nights wondering how to woo the object of your affection, as well as wondering how he feels about you. Instead of sitting back and just taking the suspense, uncertainty and confusion, stop wasting time and try to take control of the situation.
Confidence is one of the sexiest traits someone can possess. Show the woman of your dreams that you are confident to make her fall in love with you. Market yourself by speaking with a clear and commanding voice, walking with your back straight and your head held high. If you carry yourself in a manner that suggests you value yourself, it will convey to the other person that you perhaps might possess something that they want. Make sure that your confidence is genuine, though, as fake confidence will get you nowhere.
Hot and Cold
When it comes to humans, proximity can bring upon attraction. Be sure to hang around the guy that you are in love with, but make a point to be unavailable some of the time, just enough to get him interested and fascinated This is because you don't want to come across as desperate, and it always helps to keep an air of mystery early on in romance. Do not be accessible every single time he calls you or wants to meet you.
To get someone to truly and deeply fall head over heels for you, it is helpful to understand and be aware of what drives that person. Find out what she likes, whether it is diving or Western movies. Look for common ground between the both of you and emphasize it. If you also are an avid diver, for instance, make sure that she is aware of it. Drive the point home that you have a lot in common, and try to make sure that's the truth. This is not to say that you should pretend to like something that someone else likes just to get approval. Seek out what you have in common and work that angle. Always be yourself.
As much as we all don't like to admit it, a major part of falling in love is physical attraction. If you want to get someone's attention and him them fall for you, it is important that you look your personal best. Play up your best physical qualities and downplay your flaws. If you have gorgeous eyes, accentuate them by matching your T-shirt with them. Make sure to always also practice proper grooming and personal hygiene habits, whether it's shaving, showering or simply combing your hair.
Relax. Falling in love should be a fun, exciting and relaxing thing. Avoid overreacting and becoming a nervous wreck every time you encounter the woman of your dreams. Do not act the fool or rearrange your life just to impress someone else. After all, a large part of someone falling in love with you is well out of your control, so just do what you can, relax and enjoy yourself.
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