How to Flirt With a Guy in a Relationship

How to Flirt With a Guy in a Relationship

by Marie Jones

About Marie Jones

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I am an English major at UH Manoa and love to write. I currently publish several articles a month in the Ka Leo newspaper in Honolulu, as well as for Associated Content. I am a hard worker and would love the honor of publishing for your website.

Everyone wants to feel special and desired, and when you flirt with a guy in a relationship, you can get that attention without the trouble of commitment. Whether the guy is just dating someone or is married, flirting enables you to release those sexual desires while enabling you to be silly. After all, he's already in a relationship so you aren't trying to impress him. Before you flirt with a committed guy, however, make sure his leading lady is okay with flirtatious conversation. Nothing ruins a bit of innocent flirting like an irate girlfriend.

Step 1

Smile at the guy when he looks at you. Wink, grin or even make a sexy face. You don't have to talk in order to be flirtatious. Facial expressions can be very persuasive and often speak louder than your words.

Step 2

Compliment the guy. Notice his new haircut or his recent weight loss. Admire his stylish choice of clothes and comment how lucky his girlfriend is to be dating such a handsome man.

Step 3

Talk about the social situation you're in. If you're bored at the office holiday party or burning time at the gym, flirting is a quick and interesting way to pass the time. Talk about how you're enjoying or not enjoying the party, how often you exercise or even what your career or fitness goals are.

Step 4

Touch with discretion. If you like to touch while you flirt, make sure you're discreet and your touches are appropriate. Touching is natural and can be very playful, but make sure your hands stay above the waist and your touches are light and quick.

Step 5

Be yourself. Since the guy is in a relationship, you don't have the added pressure of trying to impress him. You can tell a silly joke, share an outdated pickup line or even talk about your favorite corny movie.

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