Online Dating Tips

by Emily Lugg

About Emily Lugg

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Emily Lugg began writing at a very early age. She is currently a writing advisor at a private university as well as a freelance writer for Demand Studios and Writers Research Group. Lugg holds a Bachelor's degree in English with a concentration in Creative Writing and is presently working on her Master's degree in Liberal Studies.

Online Dating Tips

From the comfort of your own home you can meet and chat with people from anywhere in the world if you wish. By making some general selections about what you are looking for, many dating websites assist you in finding the people that most fit the criteria you have designated. Online dating can be fun and slightly less intimidating than walking up to someone in a restaurant, but there are some tricks to the trade that can help you to make the most out of your online dating experiences.

Your profile

Your online dating profile should include the information that is most important to you in finding a mate, but not your entire life story. Remember that some things are better left to be told in person and won't be done justice if told over the Internet. List your hobbies, what you like to do on the weekends and what your occupation is, but avoid talking about past relationships, your family or other deeply personal topics on your profile--leave those topics for when you meet in person.

Contacting a date

Once you have found a potential match, you have to let them know you are interested. Depending on the website, your choices vary as to how you can alert someone that you are interested. Some sites allow you to send quick, one-line, already written "icebreakers" to get someone to check you out. If you aren't sure what to say, these are an easy way to "break the ice" and get an email conversation started. If you want to skip the back and forth, choose one or two things that most drew you to the person's profile and let that person know. This will show the other person that you took the time to read their profile and are truly interested based on what they have said about themselves.

Pitfalls

An important thing to remember about online dating is that things aren't always as they appear. For as many people who are upfront about who they are, there are just as many that may believe it is OK to tell a white lie here and there. Approach online dating with caution and with an open mind. This is also true for the way people express themselves. It is difficult to pick up on humor or sarcasm if you don't know the person on the other end. Be careful how you word things until you are more comfortable with the other person and their personality.

Meeting for the first time

Sometimes it can be a little uncomfortable going to a place to meet someone that you have never met before. It is important for the first date that you agree to meet the person at a designated location other than your home. This will allow you to have your own method of transportation if you need to get out of the situation and the person will not know where you live until you decide you are, in fact, interested in them. Agree that one or both of you will wear something distinctive that will make it easy to locate each other.

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