Breaking up when in a relationship can be very traumatic to a person. However, it doesn't have to be. By setting goals for yourself you'll be able to get over the breakup easier than if you sat and sulked. Take these tips in order to reinvent yourself after a breakup.
Change your attitude and outlook on life. Be positive and confident about yourself. It may be hard and feel awkward at first, but give it a try and it'll get easier. Remember that a smile feels better than a frown.
Find a gym and exercise or do it at home. There are many places that offer aerobic or swimming classes. Try one and you may find you like it. You'll also be able to meet new people when you go out and try new things.
Get a makeover and a new wardrobe. Getting hair and nails done always makes a girl feel better, but new clothes can make you feel fabulous. Donate clothes you no longer wear to a charity or give them away to friends. Find a new style that might suit you better. Ask for advice from friends if you aren't sure what style to try.
Be yourself, not a fake. Your true colors will show if you pretend to be someone you aren't. Just because you reinvent your attitude, doesn't mean you need to change who you are on the inside.
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- Be prepared to attract more attention with your new look and positive attitude.