Things a Guy Should Do to Attract Girls

by Bronwyn Timmons
Things a Guy Should Do to Attract Girls


As a man, you have likely experienced an internal conflict when it comes to attracting women. You want women to find you attractive, but you want them to see you as the person you are and like you for your true self. You can attract girls by making several adjustments in your life without having to sacrifice your personality, style and values.

Practice Good Hygiene

Good hygiene is one of the most important elements of attracting women. Keeping your hair clean and styled, your nails groomed and your body smelling clean will make you more attractive to women. Wearing a good-smelling, signature cologne or aftershave is another easy change you can make to your hygiene routine that will make you more appealing to women.

Appear Confident

Confidence is a trait that many women find attractive and that will make you more appealing. Appear confident by avoiding fidgeting, making direct eye contact when conversing with women and initiating conversation when you are talking to a girl. While confidence is attractive, cockiness is not. Avoid coming across as arrogant or stuck-up when talking to a woman.

Tell Jokes

Like confidence, humor is a personality trait that many women naturally find attractive. This does not mean you need to be a comedian or force humor where it is not appropriate. If you find a time to slip a casual, humorous joke into the conversation or are able to laugh off an embarrassing situation, girls will find you more attractive.

Be Social

Women are more likely to notice a man they perceive as social and outgoing than a man they perceive as introverted and shy. When out at clubs or social gatherings, make an effort to talk to various groups of people. If you are naturally shy, start out by going out with a group of your friends. If girls see you socializing with them, they will still get the chance to see your social side without you having to go around conversing with strangers if that is not within your comfort level.


When you are talking to a woman, use your best listening skills. Avoid interrupting her or commandeering the conversation, and practice eye contact to show her you are intrigued by what she has to say. Ask leading questions to keep the conversation going and to show her that you want to get to know her better.

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