Tips About Dating in Your 50s

Tips About Dating in Your 50s

by Emile Heskey

About Emile Heskey

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Emile Heskey has been a professional writer since 2008, when he began writing for "The Journal" student newspaper. He holds a Bachelor of Arts in modern history and politics from Oxford University, as well as a Master of Science in Islamic and Middle Eastern studies from Edinburgh University.

Dating in your 50s is little different from any other age. You are required to find someone to date and to get to know the person. The major difference lies in the fact that the pool of potential dates has decreased. Despite this, online dating services have made finding a date more possible.

Be honest

When dating in your 50s, it is natural that you wish to make yourself seem more of a catch. However, it is important to be honest and open at every stage. If you have been divorced, or have children, do not hide or lie about it. The person you are dating will respect you, and if the relationship becomes serious, will find out anyway. If you are dating online, use a recent photograph, or you may have disappointed dates.

Online dating

According to the Ohio Department of Aging, "Online dating has moved from being something that only the most desperate do, to the first resource many dating experts recommend." Many different online dating sites offer a different experience, and are catered towards different groups. Sites such as "Match," "eHarmony" and "Senior Match" all allow you to make a profile and search for other people of a similar age. Online dating is less of a taboo now, and many older people use it to find love.

Be relaxed

If you are over 50, it may have been a while since you last dated. It is natural to feel under pressure to be involved in a serious relationship with someone. However, the same rules of dating apply in your 50s, and not everyone wants the same thing. By being relaxed, and not forcing relationships to move faster than your partner wants, you will develop natural connections. At 50 you still have many good years ahead of you, and you can afford to take your time and find someone perfect, rather than rush to settle down with anyone.

Don't be embarrased

With the rise of online dating, the stigma of being single over 50 has decreased. Over 50s are increasingly using online dating to find love, and with almost half of marriages ending in divorce, more people are becoming single later in life. If you are embarrassed or ashamed of dating as an over-50, then you are less likely to be happy. Instead, accept your circumstances and enjoy yourself. The less embarrassed you are, the more likely you will be happy in yourself, and you will present a stronger opportunity for a date.

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