Tips on Flirting With a Younger Guy

by Nida Rasheed

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Nida Rasheed has been writing for online businesses since 2008. She specializes in topics such as health, fitness, pet care, travel and home improvement. Rasheed studied social sciences at Lahore University of Management Sciences.

Tips on Flirting With a Younger Guy


Just like men often enjoy dating younger women, women too sometimes like to date younger men. Younger men bring out the fun and jubilant side of older women, who are often successful and physically fit. But flirting with younger men requires a few skills and tips so an older women can unlock her sensuality and be alluring to those desirable young guys.

Dress Sexy

To catch the attention of a younger man, taking care of your appearance is vital. Not only will you have to stay in good shape by exercise, but you should wear flattering clothing that makes you feel confident and attractive to younger men. Older women are often more self-assured than younger women, and can pull off flirty fashions with ease.

Make the Right Moves

For a woman to attract a young man, there are certain gestures which make a lasting impact. Maintain eye contact. Giving the guy playful and lusty hints with your eyes is the most effective tool for flirting. Also try flipping your hair and twirling it around your finger, or tucking the hair behind your ears. This catches the guys’ attention. You should also maintain a soft smile and giggle when needed. A smile can be sweet, yet seductive for men, and laughter can break awkward silences. Use the touch of your hand to brush him lightly while laughing. This move will send tingles up his spine!

Remain Confident and Humorous

A young guy is attracted to the confidence that an older woman has about herself. So stop second-guessing your moves or being self conscious around him to be more appealing. Mix your inner confidence with some humor and wit to draw the man even closer.

Don’t Get Boring

Do not bore him with your past stories about your ex, job issues or your children. Tell him stories which show your funny side, or your intelligence. But make sure you give him a chance to talk! Listen to him and show an interest in whatever he has to share with you.

Avoid Nagging and Being His Mother

Younger men fear dating older women because they do not want to be mothered by them. They already have one mom, which can be a handful for them! Avoid nagging the young man and show him that you feel secure. Don't offer to help him with "mom-like" chores such as laundry or housework.

Never Make Him Feel Less Smart

Always admire who he is by showing him that he is interesting and stimulating company. You should not make him feel less intelligent or inferior to you. Instead, make him realize that he is special and important to you. Value his perspective as a younger person.

Learn From the Past

A younger man will be attracted to an older woman mainly due to her past experiences in relationships, which have made her wiser and stronger. Your past relationships -- good and bad -- will come in handy as they will help you show younger men that you are more sure of yourself.

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