Examine Your Motives
Avoid falling into a father/daughter relationship with added benefits. Many younger women are attracted to older men because of emotional wounds caused by their fathers. If this is you, seek counseling before getting into a relationship with an older man so he doesn't treat you like a little girl. Determine why you are interested in dating an older man first so you can appreciate everything he has to offer.
Act His Equal
Refuse to be intimidated by the wisdom and experience age brings. When an older man asks you out, consider yourself his equal, even though you may not feel it. This can be especially hard if the age gap is more than 15 years. Carry yourself with confidence and speak like you would to your peers. Consider yourself interesting and your life experiences just as valid as his.
Let Your Guard Down
Make peace with letting your older guy please you. Women who are used to dating in their age pool or even younger get used to striving to make relationships work and being the one making all the effort. Let your guard down and let your new amour show his affection and lavish love on you. It may feel awkward at first to have so much attention on you, but well-seasoned men know loving a woman well is the pre-requisite to being loved back. Relax and watch him romance you.
Appreciate His Gestures
Show appreciation for all the little things your date does for you. Younger men tend to focus more on themselves and their desires; older men show greater sensitivity in accommodating a woman's needs and desires. Thank him for going the extra mile when he walks you home, open doors, sends flowers or makes you breakfast. Remember to not become immune to the effort he is making.
Be ready for a serious relationship and commitment when dating an older guy. As a general rule, older men have played around and seen what's out there. They aren't wasting time by spending time with you. Ask early on if he's looking to have a family. If the answer is yes, know he is considering you for that position.