Alternative to Speed Dating

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Speed dating has grown in popularity through its depiction in film and in reaction to more demanding workweeks. Speed dating has established itself as an efficient and convenient option for meeting people outside of traditional dating, but it can have its downside as well: Many people frown upon the idea of having to endure multiple generic conversations in a single night. What are some alternatives to speed dating for the single on the run?

Online Match-Making Sites

Sites like Perfect Match, and have revamped the dating scene. Make use of one of these sites as the perfect alternative to speed dating. Most who look into meeting new people outside of the traditional dating method do so for convenience. There isn't a more convenient way to meet people than online.

With all of the screening, icebreaker questions and profile requirements these sites provide, you can learn more about your potential mate before meeting him in person than was ever possible on a traditional blind date. Many of these sites now cater to niche markets. For instance, you can join a site specifically geared to interracial dating, Christian dating or dating for alternative lifestyles.

Place an Ad

Post an ad on Craigslist or in your local newspaper. Be wary of potential stalkers and seedy characters. Do not provide too much personal information, always meet in public places and maybe even think about dating in groups.

There is also the possibility that you may have already caught the eye of your soulmate: Look through Craigslist's missed-connections ads, and don't be surprised if you find that someone who met you during a brief moment of flirtation in your past is trying to reconnect.

Alternative Speed Dating

Alternative speed dating is speed dating for those who don't like what has become the mainstream method. In addition to focusing on singles with alternative lifestyles, many alternative speed-dating parties cater to Indie culture, or base their speed dates on themes with a cult following or concepts that will incite feelings of youthful nostalgia.

For example, on an alternative speed date, instead of going through the exercise of one-on-one questions and answers with prospective dates, you may play a game of "Hungry Hungry Hippos" or "Operation." Alternative speed-dating parties provide the type of enjoyable experience that would be very difficult to recreate under normal circumstances. For more information on alternative speed dating go to

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About the Author

Simon Breedon has been freelance writing for Newspapers for the past 8 years. He has written for The Washington Informer, Edge Magazine, The Yeti, The FSView and Florida Flambeau Newspaper. He has a BA from Florida State University in Creative non-fiction/ Journalism and a Masters Certification in Editing and Publishing. He is currently attending Law School and studying for a computers science degree.

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