Libra men in general tend to choose their partners instead of the other way around. Astrologers warn that in all things, including love relationships, Libras seek balance. They already have an idea of the kind of partner that will bring equilibrium into their lives. If you have met a Libra man that you want to date, however, there are some basics to keep in mind. Libra men are captivated by beauty, culture, art, luxury and pleasant socialization skills. They are also naturally attracted to optimistic attitudes and cheery dispositions.
Maintain a neat and elegant appearance. Libra men are attracted to women who are well-dressed. They also seek balance in all things. Do not expose too much cleavage or leg to appear overly sexual. Do not dress too conservatively to appear maidenly.
Keep your home neat, clean and full of pleasing aromas if your Libra man comes over once in a while. An elegantly decorated, peaceful home contributes to his sense of equilibrium.
Cook his favorite dish or invite him to a five-star restaurant. Avoid venues with loud, garish music. If staying home, add scented candles, pictures of flowers, sounds of waterfalls and muted earth tone colors. If you have small children, invite him over when they are sleeping.
Use subtle tactics to seduce him. Do not appear overly aggressive. Libras are romantics. Wearing lace, small, delicate jewelry, make up and light perfume will heighten your feminine appeal to him.
Do not tell the Libra stranger your most intimate desires and thoughts. Mystery fosters attraction for the Libra male.
Flatter his appearance. Compliment his choice in attire and cologne. You may notice that your Libra man takes pride in being well-kept. Let him know that you notice this about him.
Act diplomatic even if an occasion arises that angers you in his presence. Do not curse or use vulgar language. Maintain a dignified comportment.
Showcase your intelligence. Libra men are not discouraged by thoughtful partners. They appreciate a person who can deduce and analyze a situation for herself.
Allow him to express his interests whether they are automotives, art, music or the latest news trends. Educate yourself in what he likes in order to engage in thought-provoking conversation with him the next time you meet. The Libra man likes to share experiences.
Display acts of kindness and generosity around him. Libra men are attracted to "sweet" mates with soft words and open hearts. Feed a homeless person or express concern during conversations about social injustices.