Stop comparing yourself to other guys. This is where our self esteem takes a nose dive. We look at other men and we start to feel insecure about ourselves. We start to question ourselves and wonder whether or not we are good enough. The first thing you need to do is to stop comparing yourself to other guys and realize that you are worth a lot more than you think.
Talk to yourself only in a positive manner. If you only let bad thoughts and negative thinking in your head then that is all you will get out. Your self esteem will plummet and so will your confidence. Try to keep only positive thoughts in your head. Remember to tell yourself that you are good enough and that you are a catch. Blocking out the negative and keeping only the positive will help you keep a good self image and will also boost your confidence.
Practice talking to women. Many times we lose confidence because we are not good at something. If you are not good at talking to women or if you are having a hard time when you talk to women, then you need to practice until you are comfortable. Practice talking to women at work, in line at the store or anywhere else you are. You do not need to try to get their number, just start a conversation and try to keep their attention. The point is to practice so when the situation comes up for you to talk to a woman you are interested in, it will be easier for you.
Speak clearly and confidently when talking to others. Mumbling is a sign of nervousness and insecurity. Speaking up clearly when you speak signals that you are confident in yourself. Speak up and say what you have to say without mumbling. If a woman cannot understand you, chances are she will move on to someone else.
Hold your head up when you talk to others and when you are walking around. Too often men stare at the ground or in many different directions when conversing with others. Hold your head up high and make eye contact with others when talking. Not only will this help with your confidence, but in getting you more phone numbers and dates as well.