How to Captivate Him

Every woman desires the ability to captivate the man of her dreams and make him fall madly in love with her.
A man kisses his girlfriend on the forehead.A man kisses his girlfriend on the forehead.
However, it is often difficult to know exactly what to do to make him fall head over heels. There are many tried-and-true theories, though, that can help you capture the heart of the man you love.

How to Captivate Your Man

Two women have drinks together at a bar.

Step 1

Be available, but don't be too available.
Guys don't like clingy girls or feeling like they are the center of someone's world. Make it obvious that your world would not fall apart without him in it, even if you believe it would. Make sure that you fit in time for the girls, so he knows that you have a life outside of your relationship with him. Show him that he is important to you, but not the end-all-be-all. Guys enjoy a bit of challenge, so make him do a little footwork to get your time and attention.
A couple watches a game on tv together.

Step 2

Show that you two have similar interests.
Ask him if he watched the football game the other day, and ask who won. Most guys say that their ideal girl is the one who can just hang like the rest of his guy friends do. Show him that you actually have an interest in the things he does.
A couple gazes into eachother's eyes outside.

Step 3

Look into his eyes.
Most people who are in love can gaze in each other's eyes for much longer than casual friends. This will show him that he captivates you, and will likely increase the odds of you captivating him.
A man tightens a pipe with a wrench.

Step 4

Give him a job to do around the house.
Ask him if he can fix a pipe, hook up the new DVD player or change a light bulb that you can't reach. It will make him feel needed and important. Concrete tasks can make you two bond more.
A woman stands at a patio door wearing a man's shirt.

Step 5

Walk around the house wearing a shirt of his.
Men find women walking around in their clothes almost irresistible.

About the Author

Kathleen Odenthal began her journalism career in 2010 writing for various websites. She specializes in mental health, nutrition and consumer product reviews and holds a Bachelor of Arts in journalism from the University of Southern California.

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