Cultural Dating Differences

American-style dating is becoming more common in big cities worldwide.American-style dating is becoming more common in big cities worldwide.

Marriage is one of the few things that is universally practiced around the world. But how couples get to the point of marrying is a whole different story. In some places, you might not meet your future husband until just before the wedding. In other places, people date many partners before settling down. As we become more and more globally connected, it's important to understand how such a personal and essential thing as finding a partner happens in different cultures.

USA and Canada

The conventional idea of dating is rooted in Western culture. Dates are seen as a way to test out a potential partner before making a commitment to a relationship. In the USA and Canada, dating starts as young as 14 or 15, although these dates are often in groups. For adults, it's common to meet potential dates at a bar -- it usually starts by the man offering the woman a drink. If they like each other, they will exchange numbers. Common date activities are going to dinner, the movies, a sports game or a bar. The man usually pays for the date, at least at first. Public displays of affection (like kissing in public) are socially acceptable.

Latin America

In Central and South America, people start dating in their later teen years, and then not just in couples. A group of friends will all go out together to go dancing or to eat out, where couples form. Casual dating isn't as common as in North America, and most young men and women take their relationships seriously.


In Asia, dating is more strict and most young people don't start dating until they are finished school, usually at around 20. In some countries, such as India and China, marriages are often arranged. Thus young people might date a bit, but they know that they will marry the person their parents chose for them. The choice is usually made based on social status or the alliance between families, rather than romance.

Middle East

In the Middle East, dating practices are heavily influenced by religion and tradition. In Iran, dating is even illegal. Most marriages are arranged, and men and women are generally separated until they meet each other in a supervised date before marriage. This reflects a culture of stricter social norms and a stronger value on religion.


The dating practices vary widely across the continent. In general, however, sex before marriage is not acceptable, so even when young people date, it doesn't lead to a sexual relationship. In the countries where Islam is a major religion, the dating practices are quite strict and the marriages are often arranged by the parents. In some countries, polygamy is legal and practiced, so men may court and marry a younger woman after he is already married.


The dating practices differ from country to country in Europe. In Western Europe, dating among teenagers is usually a group activity, such as going to a party or a club. For adults, dates are more likely to be one-on-one and more formal. In Russia, dates usually happen at a dance club or a ball. In the UK, young men and women go out in groups to go drinking or dancing. Drinking can be an important factor in mustering the courage to tell someone you like them.

Intercultural Dating

Intercultural dating is becoming more and more common, with the increase in immigration and the invention of online dating. As different cultures come in closer contact with each other, many people find partners of a different culture and have to adapt their expectations or assumptions to make the relationship work. Yet dating someone with a different background can really enrich the relationship by forcing both people to communicate more, make more effort to understand each other, and compromise.

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About the Author

Sharon Kennedy has lived and/or worked in Asia, Africa, Europe and the Americas and started writing professionally in 2010. She currently works with the YMCA and volunteers with Journalists for Human Rights. Kennedy is a graduate of the University of Ottawa, where she completed a Bachelor of Social Science.

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