Discussion Topics for Dating Couples

Dating is not all about getting wined and dined or even doing the pampering.
Dating is your chance to see who someone really is.Dating is your chance to see who someone really is.
Instead, it is about getting to know someone and determining if he should occupy a place of importance in your future. To ensure that your dating efforts result in a deeper understanding of who your dating partner really is, fill your dates with conversation on topics that will reveal who each of you are and what you most value.

Favorite Trips

In all likelihood, you and your dating partner have have been through an assortment of different adventures.
Learn about the paths that your separate lives have taken up to this point by discussing favorite trips. In doing so, you may discover that your partner was shaped by a trip to Venice, or that you share some travel history around which you can bond.

Future Plans

If you would ultimately like to share a future with your dating partner, it is wise to gather information on what she wants her future to look like.
Ask her questions about her future plans, including where she would like to live, what kind of job she would like to hold and even how many children she hopes to one day have. Share similar information with her, allowing her to see whether you are on the same page.

Deepest Dreams

Being open and honest with someone with whom you are in a relationship is vitally important.
One effective way to induce this honestly is to discuss dreams. Ask your relationship partner to share some of his dreams, listening as he recounts hopeful dreams as well as petrifying nightmares. Share your dreams as well, looking for similarities and sharing some laughs about some of the silly things that filled your resting hours.

Past Relationships

While you don’t want to devote your entire date conversation to past relationships, it is wise to discuss these previous attempts at love.
By talking about previous experiences with love, you can help your dating partner see what you do and do not like so she can tailor her actions toward these preferences.

Childhood Triumphs

Even though you and your romantic partner may not have shared one childhood, you can feel more like you did by discussing these youthful years.
Ask your partner to share some childhood stories, discussing the good, the bad and the ugly, and you do the same. As you chuckle about your youthful indiscretions or cringe at poor choices made during your inexperienced years, you may feel yourself drawing closer to your partner.

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Erin Schreiner is a freelance writer and teacher who holds a bachelor's degree from Bowling Green State University. She has been actively freelancing since 2008. Schreiner previously worked for a London-based freelance firm. Her work appears on eHow, Trails.com and RedEnvelope. She currently teaches writing to middle school students in Ohio and works on her writing craft regularly.

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