Smile as he's speaking and make direct eye contact. This sets a basic foundation for flirting. Your smile indicates that you're glad he's here and direct eye contact indicates that you're engaged with what he's saying. According to "The Flirting Bible" by Fran Greene, smiling makes you look more approachable and attractive.
Move in closer towards him. You don't want to be so close that you make him uncomfortable, but you do want to establish a sense of intimacy between the two of you. Touch his arm if you feel comfortable and are confident you can make it look casual. Greene says that leaning in shows your interest in another person.
Laugh at his jokes, and joke back. Guys usually try to sound funny when they flirt with women, so laughing or giggling at the jokes he makes, even if they're not funny, is a certain way of indicating that you're interested. Joking back shows you want to keep the conversation going and get him laughing. It also shows you're giving this person your undivided attention, states Greene.
Tease him back if he teases you. Guys often gently tease women if they like them. Teasing him back will indicate to him that you're interested. This is called a mirroring action, and it helps move the conversation forward and show your interest, according to Greene. Be careful to keep your teasing light, though. A guy could be sensitive, and you don't want to accidentally hurt his feelings.
- "Total Flirt: Tips, Tricks, and Techniques Every Girl Needs to Get the Guy"; Violet Blue; 2011
- Romance Stuck: Flirting
- "Hooking Up or Holding Out: the smart girl's guide to driving men crazy"; Jamie Callan; 2006
- "The Flirting Bible: Your Ultimate Photo Guide to Reading Body Language"; Fran Greene; 2010