It is challenging to get your ex back when you are doubting your character and what you do have to offer. Moping around complaining to mutual friends may be repeated back to your ex as being desperate and completely involved with what he is doing and when he is going to contact you.
Know your Worth.
Does your ex boyfriend deserve you back? If you feel there is hope for the relationship start to affirm your positive qualities. Examples could be that you are healthy, smart, educated, improving your education, funny, hard worker, good host, or great friend. Write these down when you begin to feel stressed or anxious to get back with your ex.
Reasons to break up.
Many times when a guy dumps you, it is hard to try to fit into his head to figure out his reasons to break up. If there were relationship issues that you at one time were unwilling to work on, now is the time to work on it. Now is the time to become equipped to handle the relationship emotionally, financially, and in maturity.
- Work on improving yourself, so that you are emotionally stable and appealing when an opportunity to get back with your ex presents itself.
- Try not to disclose any personal details of the relationship to friends or family if you want you ex back.
- Start working on improving your appearance, after all men are visual.