How to Keep a Woman Interested

Keep her guessing so that she stays interested.Keep her guessing so that she stays interested.

Keeping a woman interested doesn't have to be a great challenge. When you have found a woman you are interested in keeping, you will know it. You begin to think about things such as how long you should wait to call her. Wanting to keep her engaged is a great wish. As long as you put in the work, you can be sure to keep women interested.

Be self-confident. Being a secure man boosts her attraction to you as long as you are confident without being egotistical. Women like a man who is confident in himself.

Keep her guessing. This helps prevent her from becoming complacent and taking you for granted. Women do not want a man who is at available at their every whim. Pull her in, and then push her away just a little periodically to keep things interesting.

Compliment her regularly. Try not to be predicable predictable. You want to be careful not to give her the same "you look great today" statement every time you see her because it won't mean as much to her. Instead, be creative with what you say and how you say it and be sincere.

Continue having your own life. Do things with your friends from time to time without her. There are times to include her in doing things with your friends, but a little space will cause a harmonious balance in both of your lives, and your woman will stay interested if you are not clinging to her. This will leave her wanting more, and she will appreciate the time she does have with you.

Be an imaginative and romantic lover. Use creativity to throw out extravagant and loving plans for her. Create a wonderful candlelit dinner or give her a beautiful gift when she least expects it.

Take care of yourself. Dress, eat and exercise well. Everyone desires to be with someone attractive, and this will help your woman remain attracted to you.

Listen to her. Pay attention and ask questions so she feels appreciated. Be aware, women like to vent when discussing troubles and this doesn't necessarily mean she is looking for advice on what to do. Only offer solutions when she asks.

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  • Keep your female friends because they're good resources in keeping a woman interested.
  • Give her space to have her own life in addition to you having yours.

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