Discard Limiting Beliefs
Limiting Beliefs, within the Law of Attraction paradigm, are any fears or hesitations you have about yourself and your own abilities. In new dating situations, women and men alike naturally fear inadequacy and rejection. These negative thoughts are spawned by negative energy and must be squelched before any new romances begin. Otherwise, the relationship will be controlled by feelings of insecurity. The key is to recognize the negative thoughts before they become your mantra. To stop a Limiting Belief, recite its polar opposite (positive) belief to yourself and internalize the words. For example, if your standard belief is, "It's impossible for me to get a date," affirm, "I am worthy and capable of getting a date."
Instead of carrying the baggage of a previous relationship into your next and assuming the worst as you seek a new partner, open your mind to the possibility of a positive outcome and stop dreading the negative. A woman who has had unhealthy relationships with negative men may suspect all men to be ill-intentioned and project her fear onto a new date. Before approaching someone with flirtatious behavior, ensure that your own mind is free of negative energy that you might unwittingly project.
State an Intention
Flirting is the art of successfully creating positive, charismatic energy around you in the aim of attracting the attention of a possible mate. The Law of Attraction demands that you focus your positive intentions toward manifestation, turning your dreams into actual events in your life. Your first task upon meeting a person of interest is to communicate to them using your aura and positive, magnetic attitude, "I would like to be more than a friend. I am a romantic prospect." Leaving a strong impression leads to increased chances of further dates and a relationship.
Practice the Art
Dating and flirting without baggage or emotional projection really requires your dedication to practice. Employ your positive mental energy toward sending out powerful romantic/sexual signals during each interaction with an attractive prospect. You will soon learn how to harness your allure and sexual appeal into maximum levels of attraction from interested parties. Don't forget to be fully engaged and somewhat playful in your flirting, and as each new dating relationship blooms, continue to cultivate your positive energy and resist fear-based thoughts.