How to Know When a Man Loves You Without Saying It

There are a variety of ways to tell how your man feels about you.There are a variety of ways to tell how your man feels about you.

Men are notorious for being close-lipped when it comes to expressing their emotions, especially love. However, your man might be telling you how much he loves you without even saying a word. Knowing what to look for and how to interpret certain signs or gestures will take the guesswork out of how your man is feeling about you.

Small but meaningful gestures, like breakfast in bed, are all indications your man has strong feelings for you.

Step 1

Look for small but meaningful gestures from your man. A thoughtful card, clearing the snow off your car on a cold morning or making you breakfast in bed all are silent indications your man has strong feelings for you.

If a man remembers details about your life, like your favorite foods, then he is falling for you.

Step 2

Notice whether or not your man remembers particular details about your life. You might have told him once several months before that you enjoy Thai food. If your man makes spontaneous reservations at the latest Thai restaurant, this is a sure sign he is feeling love for you.

Introducing you to his social circle is an important sign.

Step 3

Recognize how important it is when he introduces you into his social circle. Men generally do not bring just any woman to meet their friends, so if he invites you to hang with his guy friends, this is indicative of feeling very strongly for you.

If a man starts telling you about important things in his life, he is falling in love with you.

Step 4

Listen to how and what your man talks to you about. Men will keep conversations superficial until they truly care about you. Once your man starts talking about important things, such as stress at work or family issues, he clearly is smitten and falling in love with you.

Meeting his mother is an important sign that he is in love with you.

Step 5

Acknowledge one of the most important signs a man is in love with you: he introduces you to the other woman in his life -- his mother.

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  • Don't push the issue of saying "I love you." Men work on their own time tables and pushing the issue will only make it less likely to occur.

About the Author

Michelle Blessing has experience in child development, parenting, social relationships and mental health, enhanced by her work as a clinical therapist and parent educator. Blessing's work has appeared in various online publications. She holds a Bachelor of Arts in sociology from Bloomsburg University of Pennsylvania and is pursuing her master's degree in psychology with a specialization in applied behavior analysis.

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