How to Find Mature Women

Museums are great places to meet mature women.Museums are great places to meet mature women.

Many men want to find mature women, whether they're older, younger or the same age. Seeking a mature woman doesn't necessarily mean that you have to date a woman who is much older than you. Often, mature women aren't distracted by status symbols or how much money a man makes. Plus, it's easier and more interesting to have a conversation with a mature woman, whether you're on your first date or celebrating your five-year anniversary.

Spend your time at places where mature women frequent. You're not going to find a mature woman at a packed bar swarming with college students on a Friday night. Instead, join a country club or spend your weekends at museums or book stores.

Ask your friends or family members to fix you up. According to Men's Health website, most couples hook up through a mutual friend, not a random meeting. Look within your social network to meet a mature woman. Asking someone who you already know to fix you up on a date will give you an edge -- your friend already knows your personality and the kind of person you want to meet.

Become cultured. Simply meeting a mature woman doesn't mean you'll have something to talk about. Expand your mind by engaging in activities that are both interesting and educational. Read the latest novel or take an art history course. This way, you'll be prepared to strike up a conversation.

Volunteer for a cause or organization you feel passionate about. Not only will you run into a mature woman, but you'll also feel better about yourself. Confidence and selflessness are attractive, and volunteering will provide a basis for conversation. Additionally, if you and the woman become friends, you'll have an activity that you can engage in together.

Create a profile on a dating website. While you may have to weed through many women's profiles before you find one that meets your standards, this is a great way to meet several women quickly. Many mature women turn to online dating because their busy lives don't allow them free time to go out and meet new men, or because they're having difficulty finding companions in their towns.

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  • If you must spend your weekend nights at a bar with your friends, at least choose one that's a bit classier than your traditional pub. Hang out in an area of town that has a thriving business section and opt for a lounge or restaurant that caters to a high-quality crowd.

About the Author

As a full-time writer in New York's Hudson Valley, Lindsay Pietroluongo's nightlife column and photos have appeared regularly in the "Poughkeepsie Journal" since 2007. Additional publications include "Chronogram," the "New Paltz Sojourn," "About Town" newspaper and "Outsider" magazine. Pietroluongo graduated from Marist College with a B.A. in English.

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