Meeting American women can be a challenging prospect. If your social skills are not particularly sharp you may want to consider meeting women online. Meeting women online allows you to be yourself and limit your competition.
There are a variety of places you can go online to talk with women who are looking for a date or a friend. You can meet women using websites such as Okcupid, craigslist, myspace, and facebook. Craigslist is a good place to start. You can go to men seeking women and find a person that is right for you.
The most important thing to remember is that you must prove to a woman that you are a gentleman and that you are a good listener. The first step involves you preparing an email. Be respectful and offer an introduction that includes a description of who you are and what you enjoy. Ask for her hobbies as well and find a common ground for discussion
If you find common ground offer your picture and request hers as well. This picture should be a clear image of just yourself, with your friends cropped out and it should be G-rated. If she responds with hers you are on good footing already. Don't get your expectations too high and be open to a person's appearance.
Next offer to talk through a medium other than email such as instant messenger. And slowly work your way to a phone conversation.
The steps above may have to be repeated several times before you find a compatible date. However, this method is free and allows you to avoid on line dating services and online dating websites that charge you a fee.
Things You Will Need
- Sense of Humor
- Humor is always a plus
- Meet in public first for safety reasons
- Be cautious when giving out personal information