Stay Away from Drama
Drama turns most men off.
Men are straightforward and typically say exactly what they mean to avoid chaos. A man who senses his date's desire for drama in her life needs to back away quickly. Keeping up with a person's drama can be draining and rarely can those kinds of people be satisfied. Misunderstandings, insecure feelings and overheated arguments go hand-in-hand with a person who enjoys a drama-filled relationship.
Wait to Meet Friends and Family
After only a handful of dates, do not rush to meet the other person's family and friends.
Establish the relationship before allowing other people to weigh in and give opinions. If not, you could find yourself losing dates with someone you really like. Perhaps your date's family points out to her that, in their opinion, you really should own a home by now. While this may never have entered your date's mind, all of a sudden she is second-guessing your chemistry. Comments like these hurt your chances for another date, so it is best to keep others at bay until the two of you are secure in your dating.
Ditch Obsessive Behavior
Sometimes men overlook telltale warning signs on the first date because of a woman's attractive looks.
As soon as obsessive, jealous behavior surfaces, the dating needs to stop. This kind of behavior only leads to uncomfortable situations, lying and safety issues. If a woman talks nonstop about marriage within the first few dates, is too interested in your past relationships or acts like she needs to know everything about you, the relationship is not worth pursuing.
Too Much Baggage
When a date reveals money problems, an argument with her landlord, a layoff, her dog dying and someone stealing her wallet -- all of which happened last week -- a red flag should immediately go up.
While bad situations and unfortunate luck creeps into everyone's life at some point, letting it all hang out on the first date is not acceptable. Some men may want to "rescue" the person from her problems, which rarely works and is never a good idea.
Men have to actively show interest in a date if they want to see the person again.
Paying compliments, picking up the bill, showing manners and being on time are important. If a woman walks away from a date not knowing where she stands, the man has not done a good job of conveying his feelings. Clear, specific actions should be taken to show the person you are interested, such as asking relevant questions and listening attentively.