Make an honest assessment of yourself, paying particular attention to your strengths, your interests and the things you think will attract you to a mate. Think about what you want out of online dating: if you like to go out and have fun every night, you probably won't appeal to someone looking for a quiet long-term relationship and vice versa. Write these traits down when you're done so you can reference them easily.
Think of a few unique things about yourself that stand out. It may be something you've done that not many people have accomplished, or a quirky hobby that no one else engages in. While you want to emphasize common points of interest with a mate, such details will help set you apart from the pack.
Ask your friends or those close to you for any additional traits which you think may be worth mentioning. They may notice things about you that you yourself are unaware of.
Write up a brief description of yourself and what you're hoping to find with online dating, using the traits from Steps 1 and 2 as guidelines. Write freely and naturally, without worrying too much about the structure. For now, you just want to get it all down on paper. Keep an optimistic tone to your writing: you want to reflect a positive outlook and a sense of hopefulness. Limit the description to two or three paragraphs; any longer than that and you're likely to bore your reader.
Revise your description, going over it with a critical eye and polishing any places that don't quite work. While it doesn't pay to obsess over it, you want it to be as good as you can make it. Be sure to double check your grammar, spelling and punctuation: a clean description is much more appealing than one with a lot of mistakes.
Log on to the dating site and post your description using the steps they provide.
- It helps to write your description using programs like Microsoft Word, rather than directly on the website itself. Dating sites often log you off after a certain amount of time has passed, causing you to lose your work if you're not finished. Write it elsewhere, and then copy and paste it to the dating site; it lets you get it just right before you post it.
- Be honest. Lying never pays in online dating and anyone you end up with is certain to find the truth eventually. That doesn't mean you shouldn't present the best image of yourself that you can, only that you shouldn't say anything about yourself that isn't true.