Finally here is an article that will help you decide if he/she is right for you. So take off the rose colored glasses and really look at what is before you.
Below you will find how you know if your partner is not right for you and this may be time to move on and tell them don't stick and stay, keep it moving.
Do you find yourself making excuses for your partner? Do you catch your partner in lies? Do you argue all the time and bicker over everything? Is your relationship one sided? Is your partner verbally/emotionally/physically abusive? Do you revolve your life around your partner, their friends,family etc,,?
If you answered YES to any of the above, it's time to move on.
Tell your partner the issues you have, such as for example the issues listed above and tell them this is not working out and it is best you both move on.
Go out, meet new people, put a profile on line, join a class/group, speak to a spiritual leader etc...
Things You Will Need
- An open mind and some quiet time to think it out
- Promise yourself if you are not happy at any time in a relationship and it can not be worked out, move on. Life is too short to waste.
- An abuser will not change. If you are being abused seek help.