How to Tell If a Girl Is Falling for You

If you have been dating a girl for a while, you might want to know when to take the relationship to the next level.
If she wants to be around you all the time, she might be falling for you.If she wants to be around you all the time, she might be falling for you.
Maybe you enjoy her company and the pair of you have been spending a lot of time together. To know for sure if she is falling for you, pay attention and listen to her. Also, keep your eyes open to what her facial expressions might be saying. A few telltale signs indicate that she might be falling for you.
Cease contact for one day and see how she responds.

Step 1

Stop contacting her by not calling her or text messaging her for one day.
If she text messages or calls you, it might mean that she wants to spend time with you and can't go a day without talking to you.
Suggest to meet up spontaneously.

Step 2

Suggest to meet up with her spontaneously.
If she drops everything she's doing with a smile on her face and will willingly meet up with you on a whim, it means that she enjoys spending time with you. This might mean that she is falling for you.
Look at her facial expressions.

Step 3

Look at her facial expressions.
Check to see if she has a smile on her face around you, even if the two of you are not talking. This may indicate that she enjoys being in your presence, no matter if you are on a fancy date or are sitting at home watching a movie.
Ask her about her future.

Step 4

Ask her about her future.
If she talks about the future positively and you are included in it, she might be falling for you. If she does not include you in her future or is annoyed by your question, this might be a red flag.
Go along when she wants you to meet her family.

Step 5

Go along with her when she wants you to meet her family.
This big step means that she thinks you are important enough to introduce to people who are important to her.
Watch to see how caring she is.

Step 6

Watch to see how caring she might have become.
If she sets up small surprises for you, celebrates the positive things in your life and becomes sad about your problems, she might be more into you than you think.
Does she fit in well with your friends?

Step 7

Hang out with your friends and her to see how they get along.
If she fits right in and has fun with your friends, this is a good sign. Switch it around and hang out with her friends and her. You want to make sure that she talks to you as well as her friends when everyone hangs out.
How does she react when you give her a small gift?

Step 8

Give her a small gift and look at her reaction when she opens it.
Watch to see if she seems truly grateful and appreciative about the small gift. If she does not thank you for the gift or does not seem interested, this might be a red flag. If she gives you a gift without any special occasion, it might mean that she cares and thinks about you.
Ask her how she feels about you.

Step 9

Ask her, face-to-face how she feels about you.
If she is comfortable around you, she should be able to tell you how she feels about you, whether good or bad.

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About the Author

Christina Martinez has been writing professionally since 2007. She's been published in the California State University at Fullerton newspaper, "The Daily Titan." Her writing has also appeared in "Orange County's Best" magazine. She holds a Bachelor of Arts in communications and print journalism from California State University.