Spend time with her in the “just friends” stage to test her emotional climate. If she goes out of her way to make you smile, take you places and do things for you, it’s a good sign that she likes you. Her body language will tell you a lot as well. For example, if she casually touches you often, it’s likely a green light to reveal your feelings.
Picture yourself telling her about your crush in your head as practice. Rehearse the words you want to tell her and consider the location for your confession. Having a pre-rehearsed game plan for divulging your feelings for her will keep you in charge and relaxed.
Talk with her friends before you make your move. Ask about her current relationship status and whether she thinks you have a chance or not. Swear them to secrecy, of course, or they may spill the beans before you have the chance to confess.
Shop for supplies you need when you finally tell her. Flowers and candy are classics, but you can get specific items you know she enjoys.
Invite her to go out with you to the place where you will confess your true feelings. Remain calm and bide your time through the night. Pull her aside when the moment seems right and tell her how you feel.
- Think outside the box when it comes to admitting your feelings. For example, you can write a heartfelt note on a mix CD you make for her.